love letters

IVF at 40: Heartfelt Advice to My Past Self

IVF at 40: Heartfelt Advice to My Past Self

if I could turn back the clock, these are 5 things I would advise my 40 year old self to look within herself before starting IVF. And also get access to a beautiful journal prompt that will help create more peace and easefulmess in the day-to-day IVF Life.

Mother's Day Is Hard, but You’ve already done The Hard Stuff

Mother's Day Is Hard, but You’ve already done The Hard Stuff

If you are struggling this Mother’s Day, I want to tell you that you are not alone and that you can do TODAY! This is a list of the many difficult, amazing , wonderfully brave things we have done on our fertility journey. We did all that. We did all the hard stuff. Mother's Day - pfft! We got this!!

A Love Letter to Myself Before Infertility

A Love Letter to Myself Before Infertility

In this post, you will get to read a love letter I wrote to my 40 yo self - who just got married and contemplating IVF. This is inspired by #IDIDNTKNOW project spearheaded by Fertility Support SG (FSS) in support of the National Infertility Awareness Week (NIAW) 2023.

Begin Again

Begin Again

What is the hardest thing you did today ?

For some, waking up is hard. Going to work is hard. Not meeting loved ones is hard especially if you don't live in the same country. Not having someone to love is hard.


And let me tell you for me, the hardest thing to do is to begin again, every morning, every day after a setback or bad news, especially during this COVID times.

So I thought it's apt to start the 2nd month of 2021 with a reminder to begin again.

It's okay to feel whatever you feel - resentment, feel like a failure, useless, overwhelmed and...... truth is you are human, a human with a capacity to feel and heal. 

The hardest and the bravest you can do is to begin again.

Do that. Be Brave.